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How to Deal with Pet Loss

  For many pet owners, the death of a furry companion is just as upsetting as losing a family member of a close friend. Usually, the weight of grief felt is proportional to the role played by the pet in the person’s life. While it is important to remember that people grieve in different manners, there are certain things that everyone should keep in mind, such as that grief happens gradually and cannot be forced or hurried, and that negative emotions are normal reactions to the loss. Click here to learn how to deal with pet loss.

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Is There a Deadline for Thanking People for Their Condolence Cards?

When a loved one dies, we are overwhelmed by condolence messages, e-mails and cards from friends, relatives, colleagues and others. However, it may also be that some loved ones would fail to send their condolences and attend the funeral. When is the right time to express your gratitude to those who showed they cared, and how do you deal with those who didn’t? First of all, an article from The Boston Globes tells us that there is no deadline when it comes to sending out the “Thank You” cards; on the other hand, while feeling negative emotions towards people you didn’t hear from is normal, it may also be the right time to start evaluating your relationships. To learn more, click here.

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Understanding the Process of Grief

Grieving is a normal response to loss and it can  go on for many years. It also takes unexpected forms depending on the bereaved, his relationship with the deceased, and the cause of the loss. In worst cases, grief can lead to depression and complicated grief. Here are some things that everyone should understand about the process of grief: Shock, numbness, and disbelief usually come first Facing the loss brings out painful emotions Accepting the loss means learning to live without the loved one To learn more about coping with loss and helping a bereaved loved one, click here.

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Why Pushing the Bereaved to Move on Wouldn't Help

Many people who have gone through the process of grief considers it a lonely experience. As a matter of fact, in a 2013 survey by Slate magazine, 93% of the 8,000 participants shared that they felt that “interacting with others is generally awkward at best, and painful and isolating at worst”. If you have a bereaved loved one, here are a few reminders to avoid pushing him through quick recovery: It’s not up to you to heal the grief Forget what you think you know It’s never too late to write a condolence note Anniversary notes are deeply appreciated Click here to learn more.

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Decarlo, Louise

Louise DeCarlo, 87 of Brooklyn, NY passed away on Monday, March 9, 2015 at Hopkins Center for Rehabilitation. Born on July 1, 1927 in Brooklyn, NY, she was the daughter of the late Michael and Angelina DeCarlo. A longtime resident of the Carroll Gardens area of Brooklyn, Louise worked for many years at Bankers Trust in Manhattan, NY. She was a dedicated member of the St. Mary Star of the Sea Church throughout her life and was a caring, thoughtful and charitable person who was always doing for others and was known to have a soft spot in her heart for children, who brought her much enjoyment. Louise strongly valued family and was devoted to both her mother and brothers over the years and enjoyed many special and memorable gatherings with family both locally as well as in the Boston,

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How to Get Back to Life After Losing a Loved One

Losing someone you love is a heartbreaking moment for you and your family. While the pain and sorrow may seem unbearable, there will come a time that your suffering will eventually end. It is important though that you find comfort and support from the people that surround you. Here are some tips on how to cope up with the death of a loved one. –          Make sure you are surrounded with a solid support network. –          Ensure that you have enough money to cover the funeral expenses. –          Don’t forget to notify the deceased’s financial institutions. –          Give it a few weeks or months to get your bearings before making any big decision. To learn more, visit bbc.com.

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Finding the Words to Say to the Bereaved

Most times, the best consolation that we can offer a bereaved loved one are our words of sympathy, encouragement and reassurance. However, if you find yourself particularly lost for words, which is normal especially if you are going through sorrow yourself, there’s definitely no harm in borrowing some expressive passages from an inspiring book, poem or even a song. Safeguard Quotes has some suggestions of words that can help a child cope with grief. Click here to read the article.

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Coping with the Loss of Your Baby

Any loving parent who has lost a child will be undeniably devastated. The event can lead to a surge of emotions that some may find difficult to go through. In times like this, here are three things that one should remember: Talk to your partner and understand each other’s grief. Explore various means to reflect and express your emotions and thoughts. Share your experience and feelings to someone who you believe can of help. Click here to learn more about coping with the loss of your baby.

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Gruttadauria, Josephine

Beloved daughter of the late Luigi and Margaret Gentile. Devoted Mother of Mary Martir and Anthony Gentile. Cherished Grandmother of Alex Martir, Michael Martir and Emilio C. DiFranco. Loving sister of Lucy Nardone and Pat “Sonny” Gentile. Fond aunt to Maria, Louis D., Margaret, Phyllis, Mary, John, Louis G., Joseph, Michael, Ronald, JoAnn and Toni. Survived by many other beloved family members and generations of former students she taught at P.S. 58 to whom she was known as “Mrs. G.” Family will be greeting visitors on Thursday, March 5, 2015, from 2 to 5 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. at Scotto Funeral Home, Brooklyn. A mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, March 6, 2015, at 9:30 a.m. at Sacred Hearts – St. Stephen RC Church, 125 Summit Street, Brooklyn. Burial to follow at St. Charles Cemetery, Farmingdale,

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Coppola, Madeline

Visiting Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015,  from 2-9pm at Scotto Funeral Home, Brooklyn. Mass of christian burial St. Mary Star of the Sea, Court Street, Wednesday, March 4th at 9:30am. Prayers at Green-Wood Crematory to follow.

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